Part 1: Returning to God's Ways
God's Instructions ARE His Love
Seeing yourself as God sees you. Seeing others as God sees them.
What shaped your views on sex and sexuality?
No Compromise
Toppling our Idols
Part 2: The Cross
Forgiven, Healed, Unburdened, Purified, Restored
Shame
New Creation
Part 3: Let's talk about singleness!
What was the defining moment where you actually understood that your sexual purity was worth protecting?
Sex Drive, Dreams and Memories
Honoring God In My Singleness
Part 4: Learning to Stand
Persevering Under Trial
Part 5: Never Thirst Again
The One my Heart Loves
Satisfied
Intimacy
Learning to Live as the Bride
Honoring God in my Desire for Marriage

The Desert

Introduction

As a single, I want to know how to go to the Lord for everything I need. I want to know how to be strong in the Lord; grounded in the knowledge of His love. I want to be healthy alone and healthy in community - to be an interdependent blessing to those God has placed around me.

Like Paul knew contentment both in plenty and in lack (Philippians 4:12), there is something deep and profound that comes from the experience of knowing Jesus in the moments of desperation when there was no one else but Him. Experiencing Him as the One who sees you and will never leave you nor forsake you. Fully receiving His love. Building a history with God where you know, deep in your core, His goodness and faithfulness and ever-present help in times of need. Being able to stand strong and healthy and whole, even if you find yourself in utter aloneness. Turning to Him in moments that tempt you greatly to escape into distractions. In those moments, something unseen yet very real is being built into your relationship with God. Instead of building a relationship with some distraction/escape in unpleasant times of pain, fear, or loneliness, learning to build a relationship with Him.

In all this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials. These have come so that the proven genuineness of your faith—of greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire—may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed. Though you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and glorious joy, for you are receiving the end result of your faith, the salvation of your souls. 1 Peter 1:6-9 NIV

[She who is] left all alone puts her hope in God and continues night and day to pray and to ask God for help.
1 Timothy 5:5

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