Part 1: Returning to God's Ways
God's Instructions ARE His Love
Seeing yourself as God sees you. Seeing others as God sees them.
What shaped your views on sex and sexuality?
No Compromise
Toppling our Idols
Part 2: The Cross
Forgiven, Healed, Unburdened, Purified, Restored
Shame
New Creation
Part 3: Let's talk about singleness!
What was the defining moment where you actually understood that your sexual purity was worth protecting?
Sex Drive, Dreams and Memories
Honoring God In My Singleness
Part 4: Learning to Stand
Persevering Under Trial
Part 5: Never Thirst Again
The One my Heart Loves
Satisfied
Intimacy
Learning to Live as the Bride
Honoring God in my Desire for Marriage

Process to Freedom

Gradually, through seeing and hearing sex as portrayed in movies and music, hearing friends talk about it, and through my own choices and experiences, I had come to accept and live according to what the world said about sex. I had believed that my sexuality was something that I had to keep away from God. When I came back to God, I needed to go back to the beginning and hear the truth again.

These simple truths1 turned everything I thought I knew upside down:

  • God thought up and created both sexes.
  • God made your body.
  • God thought up sexuality.
  • The devil has never desired sexual fulfillment for anyone. His only intention is to bind us and destroy us.
  • God only says no if He has a logical or loving reason.
  • We will never get fulfillment through sinning – only bondage and destruction.
  • In the Garden of Eden, God said, “It is very good.” Do we really think that God made a mistake when He made a naked man and naked woman with fully functioning hormones? No. It is good. Don’t call it bad.
  • Where is it more appropriate to talk about sexuality than in the presence of the One who thought it up?

[1] These points are from “Sex, Love, and Relationships” by Dean Sherman, YWAM.

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